“Long Story Short…”

When’s the last time someone used that phrase on you….and it EVER ended up being a short story?

Why is it that when I hear “…long story short…” in a conversation, I always brace myself for a LOOONG story?  I’m beginning to think it’s some sort of subconscious sadistic and cynical way people have of preparing you for a “long story….. long”.

There’s never been a time in the history of humankind when the economy of words is more in demand.

Maybe it’s Twitter’s arrival on the scene that has led the way.  (140 characters)

But it’s more than that, really.  It’s also a courtesy, I believe.

People naturally want to talk about what’s important to them, and expect you to listen.  So when you keep YOUR schpiel short…you’re actually thinking of them…being considerate of their time. Talking just to hear yourself  talk is a selfish and wasteful way to waste MY time.

That’s today’s blog.  Short ‘n’ sweet.  If you want to know more…just scroll down to read the rest.  I’m trying to be considerate of your time.

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So as I was saying, about being thrifty with your words;  broadcast writing and presentation has prepared me well for not only being concise, but GETTING TO THE POINT.  When you have to tell a news story in 20-seconds, you learn to precipitate the pertinent facts down to the bare essentials. Period.  When you’ve made your point, you stop talking.  Next?

I can’t tell you the number of YouTube videos I’ve bailed out of because the main talent is eating (EATING!) during their presentation, or going off on some tangent that has no bearing to the INCREDIBLE! topic of interest that they sold you on to get you to watch their video.  See my site OnCamTips.com for a simple, easy mnemonic that helps you remember the essentials of on-camera presentations.

There are two downsides to this brutal economy of words:
1)  Traditional boardroom meetings,  phone conference calls or teleseminars become tedious in the extreme.  GET TO THE POINT!  Patter/Chatter become irrelevant.  Patience and attention span grow extremely short, and that’s frustrating.
2)  The tendency is to become TOO business-like and curt or short to the point of being rude. There’s a place for word economy, and a time for friendliness.  Knowing the difference is important.

Not only in verbal conversation but also, now in Social Media discourse, keeping it short does not mean being unfriendly.  In fact, the key to successful relationships on FaceBook, Twitter, Google+ and other sites is that you show something of yourself…enough for people to get to know you.  Do you want them to know you as a wordy blowhard?…a person who has lots to say, but says nothing?

So, long story short…when you write your newsletter, your blog, your email, record a YouTube video, or hold a teleseminar, puh-leez…get to the point.

In a time and in a culture when words mean so much.  Make your words count.  Don’t cry wolf.  When you talk (write), people will come to know that you’re not going to waste their time with drivel.

…end of rant.

CourVO

Public Speaking Is…

…said to be the #1 thing people fear most.  (It’s actually looking like a fool they fear, but Public Speaking tends to make you look foolish).

It never ceases to amaze me that people think I’d be a good public speaker because I’m a TV news anchor.  If they thought about it, they’d realize I spend 99.99% of my time in a mostly empty studio, looking at a camera, and there’s maybe 3-4 other people around.

DJ’s are subject to this same misconception, and so are voice-actors.  If you’re good at speaking, you must be good at public speaking. Right?

Ha!  I might be good at speaking, but I’m not at all used to seeing my audience stare back at me…only a camera lens or a microphone.

I’m not a joiner, so Toast Masters never appealed to me. They just seem too gung-ho to me.

Over time, I’ve learned to be good at public speaking, and since my audience usually knows and likes me, I have an advantage.  Confidence is key, but that’s a chicken-or-the-egg thing.  What I’ve come ’round to is that any audience is really expecting a show….and YOU are the entertainment.  So you have to come out of yourself and be a showman.

That’s the goal.  GETTING there takes attention to the details, preparation…maybe a slide show.

Or does it?

Take the time to read this delightful article by Silicon Valley entrepreneur Jason Freedman that I found on LifeHacker.

Without giving it away, two of his main points that I love:

– Don’t Memorize

– Embrace your Ums

OK, now go out and get ‘em Tiger!

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VO Pro Peter O’Connell actually wrote eloquently about this back in 2008. Worth checking out!

Armageddon or Armament?

Doncha love the way doomsayers are licking their chops over 2012?

In their minds, everything from Mayan calendars to planet alignment is fodder for tales of the end of the universe as we know it.

Of course, I can’t know the future, but given the track record of Harold Camping lately, I plan to arm myself instead of accepting armageddon.

January is to my year as Monday is to my week, and I hate Mondays…so I’m beginning to steel myself now.

When the euphoria of the holidays is over, and the stark reality of cold January days hits, I’m gonna be ready.  Join me?

I’m not just talking about setting your New Year’s resolutions, I’m talking full body armour and arriving early on the battlefiend.

  • getting a jump on IRS forms and accounting NOW
  • setting hard goals (not just resolutions) and mapping them out in daily, achievable steps NOW
  • being honest with myself about what is working, and what isn’t…dropping the latter, and boosting the former NOW
  • booking the calendar and travel arrangements for conferences NOW
  • choosing my mentors, go-to colleagues, and no-BS demo/audition feedback gurus NOW
  • conceptualizing my 2012 marketing materials TODAY
  • assessing the metrics of my online presence and adjusting my social media moves YESTERDAY

Get the drift?  Are you with me?

What I’m saying is be proactive, not procrastinating.

I’m recommending an assertive attitude, not apologetic platitudes.

The word is preparation, not hesitation.

OK, pre-game rally is over…I’m already on the field.

:)

CourVO

Take a Day

All my professional life I’ve never been able to take off my birthday.

The all-important November TV ratings period happens in November, and unless you’re coughing up blood, you’d better be at your post in the newsroom.

But while I’m physically present, that doesn’t mean I have to be mentally, spiritually, or psychically present…anchoring the news doesn’t really require that — amazingly enough — and I choose to be mostly absent as an act of defiance.  I just think it’s important for your sanity to “take a day” once in a while, for no good reason, but for the fact that it will save you.

Similarly (easy to type, hard to pronounce), I plan to be vacant here on this site for a day as well.  But living up to my commitment of blogging at least once a day during the business week, I offer the following attributed to Ghandi.  You may have seen it posted before on social media…I hadn’t until yesterday, and I found it especially poignant.  I hope you find something in the following words that touches you in its wisdom:

CourVO

 

Illinois Seasons

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Some things don’t change. Black, rich Midwest soil accepts new Iris bulbs in anticipation of Spring colors. Victoria & Nancy supply the elbow grease.

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Illinois Sunset

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Illinois Dreamin’

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People wonder if I sleep…where I get the time to do my work, and whether I might implode.

Nope… I find the time. Like this week. I’m on the family farm in Illinois with my wife, two sisters and their spouses. My parents are gone, but we meet once a year to make decisions about the property, go through old junk, and just… enjoy each other’s company.

A neighbor tends to the harvesting of beans, corn, and wheat on a sharecropping arrangement.

I’m enjoying a season on the cusp of Autumn with damp and earthy smells all around.

Tonite,we’ll have a bonfire. For those of you who live in greener pastures like this…it may sound common… but compared to the desert highlands of Nevada, it’s balm to the soul. It even rained while we were here… a rare treat to this desert dweller.

Thanks for indulging me.

Courvo

235 years

Call me a sap, I don’t care.  I’ll take the ridicule.  I’m an unabashed American. Today I celebrate….and wish you and yours the best on this special anniversary of the birth of our country.

I’d like to say I can imagine what things were like 235 years ago.  That’s difficult.  But what I know with certainty are the things I see before me in 2011, and I am blessed beyond what I deserve.  So is this country.

The best thing I can do to honor the sacrifices of the revolutionaries of 1776 is to be a great steward today.

Below is my recording of a short poem written by Ralph Waldo Emerson in 1904.

Blessings!

CourVO

CourVOisier Reads July4th Poem by CourVO

2 VO Rules to Live By

Last week was a wash.  Literally.

I washed up on the shores of Belize, Isla Roatan, and Cozumel on a cruise ship excursion with my family, and two other families for a week.  Yeah.  Hate that.

The picture of me there is on the beach at Passion Island North of Cozumel.  ‘An afternoon that I kinda remember (open bars are dangerous).

While I was gone, I “sandbagged” 5 blog articles, and scheduled their posting each day so there would be some semblance that all was as it should be at  Camp CourVO.  I don’t like to FaceBook or Tweet while I’m away.  Robbers are savvy, too…and it wouldn’t take much to put our house on the map while we were gone.

Below is a video I put together of some of the best moments of our cruise, but that’s not really why I’m blogging today.

POST-VACATION BLUES

Like clockwork, auditions and VO opportunities tend to pile-up the moment you walk out the door.  Immediately catching up to those loose ends is a priority.  I also returned to 1875 emails in my primary account.  I haven’t even looked at the other two accounts yet.

Do I feel overwhelmed?  You betcha!

Will I hit a brick wall of post vay-k depression?…Mmmmm….likely.

Can I possibly recover one week’s worth of Social Media presence in the next week?
Do I want to?
Is it worth it?

TWO VO RULES TO LIVE BY

1)  You can’t do it all.  Not in a day.  Not in a year.  There will never be enough time.

2)  Check-off your To-Do list by answering the following question:  Did I make progress today?

(Honorable mention:  force yourself into a rewarding distraction when you feel it’s all too much — even a small diversion is worth it)

So, this week I’m back at it.  Much to do…but it’ll get done.  Thanks for reading this far, now enjoy the video below.

CourVO

 

Boys Town

When Boys Town broke ground on a new satellite campus in Las Vegas, NV about 20 years ago I was there.  Today, I’m still an active member of the Board of Directors.

The original Boys Town was conceived by Father Flanagan in 1917.  The movie with Spencer Tracy and Mickey Rooney is what most people remember.  Today, the original home campus of Boys Town in Omaha oversees a national network of programs and satellite chapters that provide one of the most successful programs in the nation for reclaiming kids, and turning their lives around.

SAVING CHILDREN, HEALING FAMILIES

He Ain't Heavy, He's My Brother

I don’t often depart from topics of Voice Over here on this blog, but today, I’d appreciate your watching this video I made, and consider helping out.  Our annual “Journey of Hope” fundraiser is coming up in May, and with the sad state of the economy, we’re running way behind on the kind of donations we need to keep this excellent program running.

Thanks for considering this, and have a blessed week.

JOURNEY OF HOPE
BOYS TOWN

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